And you think YOU had it tough.....

Jim Feeney sent this birthday bio of Gloria Steinem today from Writers Almanac for March 25, 2009. Jim says, "you may have seen this already, but Gloria Steinem's early life was new information for me and sure helps me appreciate her even more..."

It's the birthday of Gloria Steinem, (books by this author) born in Toledo, Ohio (1934). Her father was an antique dealer and a summer resort operator who traveled all over the country in a trailer, looking for new business ventures. Steinem said, "He was always going to make a movie, or cut a record, or start a new hotel, or come up with a new orange drink." She traveled around the country, never attending school, until her parents separated, and she moved in with her mother.

But her mother's mental health began to break down, and Steinem had to take over all the cooking and cleaning and shopping. She said that her mother was "an invalid who lay in bed with eyes closed and lips moving in occasional response to voices only she could hear; a woman to whom I brought an endless stream of toast and coffee, bologna sandwiches and dime pies." Young Gloria became obsessed with Shirley Temple movies, hoping to be rescued miraculously from poverty, just like the little girl on the screen.

She managed to get into Smith College because she scored so well on her entrance examinations. After college, she went to work as a journalist. She wrote celebrity journalism for a while, but she became more interested in feminism after she wrote an article about the prevalence of illegal abortions, and all her male colleagues tried to persuade her not to publish it. She was a founder of Ms. magazine, whose first issue came out in January 1972.

Gloria Steinem said, "Writing is the only thing that, when I do it, I don't feel I should be doing something else."

With incredible serendipity, it's also the birthday of Flannery O'Connor. Here's both, though if you click the WA link above, it'll have audio, too.

It's the birthday of Flannery O'Connor, (books by this author) born in Savannah, Georgia (1925). She wrote two novels and many short stories, including "A Good Man Is Hard to Find." She is the subject of Brad Gooch's Flannery (2009), a new biography. In it we learn about her regular correspondence with a young credit bureau clerk named Betty Hester, a semi-reclusive woman. Flannery wrote Betty 274 letters, and in one of them she wrote to her: "I am afraid that if I tell you your writing to me is a kindness, you will lay this to some more of my guile or feel obliged to write me when you don't feel like it. Don't do that, but do be assured that these letters from you are something in my life."

She wrote to Betty about her stories as she was writing them. In one letter, she wrote, "I have a sentence in mind to end some story that I am going to write. The character all through it will have been hungry and at the end, he is so hungry that 'he could have eaten all the loaves and fishes, after they were multiplied.'" And in fact, that sentence was in the closing pages of her novel The Violent Bear It Away (1960).

Five years before she died of lupus at the age of 39, she sent a letter to her friends Sally and Robert Fitzgerald, along with a manuscript of The Violent Bear It Away. In the letter, she wrote about her novel: "I am 100% pure sick of it. I cannot see it any longer and the only thing I can determine about it is that nobody else would have wanted to write it but me."

Thanks, Jim, for sending this. There are so many permutations in life that it's easy to forget it's the rule, not the exception.